LJ,
Clear as mud maybe.
You are a well known member and have figured out a lot by now. Grace is a new member. As you say, there is a problem with the cursor right now not always turning red....this is slightly annoying to those of us used to fighting, but, I can see this being very confusing to someone new. How could it not be?
Also, you need to turn to a guide that another player wrote in order to figure out which one of your men will be placed where on the field. Does it have to be so difficult? Do I really need to have two windows open while I fight? And after you have a few different kinds of soldiers, some move first, then others move later. I have been playing this game nonstop for a while now and I am still confused. For example, why do some of my treants/ents move in a turn, but others don't?
Anyway, my point is, the fighting is complicated, and after you finally figure it out it becomes too difficult to do.