That is exactly why I felt "disturbed" by the sound being too loud. You wasn't really able to enjoy favored music and the game sounds together, I guess. ;-)I have never used music in RPG (or in any other game anyway). I prefer to listen to my favourite music while playing, so any ingame music would only disturb it.
(unless i play something requiring less concentration, then i might watch some movie/series while playing).
First time I played Elvenar I checked the settings and switched sound off... so for me it's never too loud..That is exactly why I felt "disturbed" by the sound being too loud.